Days of Frustration in Money and Marriage

Maybe this is a day when you are frustrated with your husband about your money and marriage, that’s okay. No one said that it would be perfect. As a matter of fact, you’ve probably already experienced good days and bad days. That is because life happens. The difference is how do you handle the days that you would consider bad? Do you sulk? Do you say Woe is me or do you pick yourself up and say, we can handle this and keep on going. It’s just a little bump and we can run it over and move on to BIGGER and BETTER things.

When you have those frustrating days, be thankful because that also lets you know that you need to change the course of action that you are taking. Why did you get frustrated? What was your role in the frustration? Is this a reoccurence within your marriage that could have been prevented? Regardless of what your answer is, look at the big picture and make the necessary changes that you can in order to help your marriage. Do not try to change your husband – that’s not your role nor your responsibility.

Let your frustration cause you to take another step today in getting to the root cause of your money and marriage issues. Is it because someone does not feel worthy of having no financial issues? Is it because that is the way you think it is supposed to be based on the past? What is the root cause. There are times when we use money as an excuse and if we had the money there would still be THIS issue. That is the ROOT! This could be the beginning of one of your biggest periods of growth – what are you going to do?